Love is in the air and couples all over the county are on the prowl for the best ways to spoil their sweethearts.
From champagne and chocolate treats once you walk through the door to dips in a private bath by candlelight and luscious body treatments performed by the city’s best massage therapists and aestheticians, San Diego spas master the mix of romance and relaxation. Out of all luxury spa treatments, we recommend couples massage for lovers looking to get pampered together.
Discover the sexiest spas for couples massages in San Diego.
The Spa at Rancho Valencia – Rancho Santa Fe
Those RSF socialites have got it made. The Spa at Rancho Valencia offers The Rancho Valencia Dream spa experience for couples all year round. If you’re not already taking up residence at the hotel, a chauffeured Mercedes-Benz will pick you and your honey up and drive you to the spa. You’ll be guided to the Couples Suite where you can enjoy a warm fireplace and some time to unwind before a 90 minute Tip to Toe treatment that includes a 60 minute nurturing massage, exfoliating foot scrub and aromatic scalp treatment. The couple can enjoy a champagne lunch in their relaxation room or in one of their outdoor poolside cabanas. Guests also have all-day access to the fitness center, plunge pools, Jacuzzis, steam rooms, and group exercise classes.
Sé Spa at Sé Hotel – Downtown
The Studio Sutra is a favorite among local spa aficionados and offers an ultra-private spa suite to enjoy with your significant other. The treatment includes a 60 minute Swedish massage, 90 minute body fusion scrub and wrap and 30 minutes to linger in the soaking tub. Couples have additional time to spend enjoying the candlelit room with a double steam and shower. After the three hour session, guests are also encouraged to order some champagne and tasty libations to sip and nibble on. For the ultimate experience, check into one of the many well-appointed rooms for a little nap after your relaxing session. (pictured)
Spa Gregorie’s Day Spa & Salon – Del Mar
Spa Gregorie’s offers a Spa Date For Two, which includes a one hour facial or massage in their Duet Room, plus a gift certificate at the neighboring Paradise Grille or Sbicca in Del Mar. Relax in your room just a little while longer with the in-room hyrdrotub or spend a few detoxifying minutes in the eucalyptus steam rooms. And for all of those independent ladies out there, the All About Me treatment, which runs only from February 1-28, includes a signature facial, Ultimate Detail pedicure and a triple paraffin dip.

Victoria Rose Spa – Banker’s Hill
Who knew a 114-year-old historic building could house one of the most romantic hidden spas in San Diego? If you’re into Victorian antiques, stained glass showers and marble galore, this spa is perfect. Enjoy the La Rose Extravaganza, which starts off with a 30 minute session in the candlelit marble whirlpool tub. The package also includes a one hour massage, facelift massage, rose petal hand treatment and Paraffin wax and mint crème foot treatment.
Spa L’Auberge – Del Mar
The seaside spa caters to couples all year. Start with a steam or a drink and snack in the relaxation room and opt for the Sea Melody treatment with your sweetie. You’ll be led to the romantic couple’s suite and experience the unique “So Sound” massage, which meshes your massage with vibrational sound therapy. Energy and sound waves intermingle with music and massage for the utmost in relaxation. Couples can also choose a body treatment and a bathing ritual of their choice before heading over to the outdoor pool and Jacuzzi to spend the rest of their day.
The Spa at Rancho Bernardo Inn – Rancho Bernardo
Escape to this luscious destination spa with your honey and soak up the “Rooms for Two” accommodations. The Spa at Rancho Bernardo Inn features both casitas and indoor treatment rooms with plenty of space for you and yours to relax side-by-side. Special for Valentine’s Day is Holiday Indulgence, an 80-minute adventure that begins with a Chocolate Chip Body Scrub where the scent of chocolate fills the air as the scrub exfoliates and stimulates circulation. A Chocolate Massage follows, with a chocolate massage oil to knead away tension. Finally you will be cocooned in a White Chocolate Soufflé Wrap while relaxing with a scalp massage. Upgrade your couples massage with this holiday perk, and you’ll never want to leave the Inn.
The Sanctuary – Ocean Beach
This petite and intimate day spa is perfect for laidback couples in search of collaborative bliss. The Couples Massage special offers two 55 minute Swedish massages, two 15 minute Aromatherapy foot massages, and a spirit toast and chocolate tasting for two. The Sanctuary’s quaint cottage setting and caring customer service will leave you refreshed and happily in love.
Coldwater Creek - The Spa – Chula Vista
Who knew the American fashion staple Coldwater Creek also had a high-quality and chic spa under their belt? For the ultimate in relaxation, spend five hours at the spa with a eucalyptus foot soak to start your journey, followed by a hot river stone massage, mango-ginger sugar polish, facial and manicure and pedicure. You and yours will fall in love with this new Coldwater Creek look.
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