Kiptyn Locke exposes what is real and fake in reality TV, how “The Bachelor Pad” compares to other series favorites, lessons he learned in love, his ideal romantic date in San Diego, advice for locals looking to break into reality TV fame and much more. Plus, check out a sneak preview below of The Bachelor Pad – premiering on ABC Monday, August 9th.

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It’s a New Year and time for a new and improved dating life. You may have done things in your dating life this past year that just didn’t work. You probably made some mistakes that you don’t want to repeat. Now is the time to declare THIS be the year you finally change and succeed...

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Since the onslaught of Bravo’s The Millionaire Matchmaker, novice Matchmakers have been on the rise and relationship-minded singles are taking interest in their services. Everyone wants to know: What exactly do they do, Why would I want one, and Which is the best one for me to join? Discover the top Matchmakers in San Diego...

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New Year's Eve in San Diego is perhaps the most romantic night of the year second only to Valentine's Day. The high energy and excitement surrounding the night probably has to do with the anticipation of what takes place that very first moment after the countdown - no, not the singing of Auld Lang Sign - our very first kiss of the New Year. Some people even believe that the New Year's Eve kiss seals our romantic fate for the entire year. Here are some Insider tips for finding the perfect New...

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Many single guys in San Diego ask me where to meet local single girls. Let's start at the beginning: every girl wants to have some guy come out of nowhere and sweep her off her feet. Some of us are more jaded about the reality of that actually happening, but I don't think any of us would complain if it did. You can be that guy. Go where the San Diego girls go...

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If 2008 has been a lackluster year for dating in your social calendar, our resident dating coach is here with a few tricks to boost your luck in finding a soul mate before the end of '08. The typical San Diego nightlife mating rituals are not always the best for finding that soul mate you've been searching for. The best piece of advice I always give to San Diego singles is that if you are active in doing the things that make you happy, you will be more likely to find that special someone to ...

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To text or to call? That is the question. In the world of courtship, the advent of modern technology has made it easier than ever for men to begin relationships. The use of text messages has provided another option by which to flirt, communicate, and even ask someone on a date...

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Valentine's Day is quickly approaching, and with no romance in sight, your Valentine's Day options seem reduced to desperate prowling at a get-together with other lonely hearts or eating ice-cream on the couch in front of the television. The latter option obviously is the more dignified one, but it just seems so unfair; you're not desperate for love, you live a fun, fulfilling life with a packed social calendar, and you don't feel ready to settle down with only one romantic interest...

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Pioneer and founder of San Diego Dating Guru, Loxie Gant has become a heroine to the romantically-challenged, unwilling to let good men get by with mediocre methods. Like many wistful women, Loxie refuses to believe chivalry is dead. With San Diego dedicating its evenings to fine dining and upscale lounges, there's no reason a woman (or man) can't be wooed in style. Loxie understands how overwhelming dating can be, and offers her inventive services as dating consultant for San Diego singles...

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The single scene may be the one area in San Diego in need of an optimistic push. Not all good guys are taken, and not all successful and attractive available men are inaccessible. DiscoverSD is here to restore your faith in San Diego single men. We personally chose six local bachelors that each have impacted San Diego pop culture within their respective industries - from art to nightlife to the live music stage. These San Diego bachelors are the full package - sexy, successful, single - and ...

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