If 2008 has been a lackluster year for dating in your social calendar, our resident dating coach is here with a few tricks to boost your luck in finding a soul mate before the end of '08.
The typical San Diego nightlife mating rituals are not always the best for finding that soul mate you've been searching for. The best piece of advice I always give to San Diego singles is that if you are active in doing the things that make you happy, you will be more likely to find that special someone to make you complete.
When searching for the man or woman of your dreams, you must establish priorities based on what you are looking for in terms of a mate. Below are a few basic stereotypes of eligible men, and local tips for where San Diego women can find such men.
Use these ideas as starting points to get creative and utilize your local resources. From the preppy guy to the businessman and the philanthropist, discover how and where to find your soul mate before the end of 2008.
The Preppy Type
Women, try the golf course or driving range after 5pm on the weekdays or during your lunch hour. Take a class or two, then rely on the kindness of a handsome bachelor to help with your swing. The municipal courses in Carlsbad or in Coronado are public spaces and beautiful settings for the amateur golfer. Men, check out wine tasting events at the San Diego Wine and Culinary Center or 3rd Corner. Other ideas: cultural mixers and events at San Diego museums, hip charity events, and art gallery openings.
The Athletic Type
Try joining an adult sports league - softball, soccer, or even kickball. Sports leagues are a great way to meet new friends, and a suitable man, that you have something in common with. Check out VAVi Sport and Social Club for all the best leagues in San Diego. There are also running clubs around the beach areas that meet on the weekends - check out meetups.com for details.
The Business Type
Try going to different restaurants and healthy delis in San Diego business and financial districts for lunch during the week. Check out Lean and Green in La Jolla, Crescent Heights in downtown business district, and Zanzibar in East Village. And, never underestimate happy hour - try The Fleetwood and Sweetwater Saloon on Friday evenings. Networking groups are also a great way to meet business minded men - check out The Schmooze San Diego for casual and fun events. (Main photo: November Schmooze)
The Philanthropic Type
Try joining a volunteer network, or find a cause that is close to your heart. You'll be sure to meet people that share your passion for the less fortunate. Some of the best consciously social organizations in San Diego are StayClassy.org, Volunteersandiego.com, and BUY ME LOVE benefits. Find other like-minded singles at this hip charity events geared toward young professionals in San Diego.
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